How do you control your laughter when your ex husband's wife shows up with a new guy..?
in the car when she drops off the kids?
My ex husband's wife is our "middle man" for picking up and dropping off the kids for visitation. He is on deployment for six months as well. Tonight she showed up with the new guy to drop off the kids and he was driving my ex husband's truck.
I asked the kids after they left who was the guy..and they told me it was some dude that "so and so" met at the tattoo shop and he took her and all the kids out to dinner tonight.
How does one control themselves or stop themselves from running to the ex-husband and telling him?
What are the odds he already knows something is up?
And you thought there was no Santa Claus.
I'm laughing for her. What goes around comes around. I would take a picture of this guy driving his truck with my camera phone and send it to ex husband pronto. Then laugh my head off. You did it to me now she's doing it to you. Karma for real!! Report Abuse
I still don't see the part that say's they have a sister over there and I have read several times..reread and maybe highlight or something..it's not there. Report Abuse
Start by not having to see it. The Ex is deployed...stop visitation. HE has visitation rights...not her. If she has a problem with it...explain that you don't want your kids to be witnesses to her infidelity...and that if she were any kind of woman...neither would she. Don't allow your children to be subjected to that kind of crap. The free weekends just aren't worth the psychological damage of having to watch and then decide whether or not to tell about your step-mother's cheating ways.
I guess you try and control your laughter until they drive away. That would be very hard for me to do.
As far as your ex, I would think he is on his own. Telling him will only drag you into all the drama in his life. I would think it is better to be in the audience.
As far as your ex, I would think he is on his own. Telling him will only drag you into all the drama in his life. I would think it is better to be in the audience.
oh you have to say somthing to him..only because of the kids..she is dealing with picking up and keeping your kids with her..you have a right to be envolved ...and the fact he was driving how do you know he was a reliable person to be driving anywhere..to tell him and fast!!!!
Would not worry too much about the laughing part ! Unfortunately your Ex, will find out what is going on, all too soon anyway. If you were to say anything to him it would seem like you were trying to get back at him ! I might suggest that you just let sleeping dogs lie.
that is the JOY of having an EX husband so you can LAUGH at them when all is said and done and leave it at that ... at leaxt you don't have to be with him anymore right?
This is a joke right? You would not really let your kids go off with their dad's new wife when he is out of the country. And be exposed to god knows who in the process. Clearly no sharp tools in the shed here.
Yeah... why does she have your kids? I guess no nomination for " Mom of the Year" or " Worlds Best Mom" for you this year......you may still receive a coffee cup with either of the sayings, but that does not count.
Have you checked your kids bodies for tattoos?
Have you checked your kids bodies for tattoos?
JJ...IF this is a serious question, don't you think you should be concerned as to why SHE has the kids and not the father????
No offense, but shouldn't ONLY the biological parents be involved here?
No offense, but shouldn't ONLY the biological parents be involved here?
lol i wouldnt just run and tell...u never know if maybe he already knows about the guy, but id definately drop the a "hint" to him just in case he doesnt lol..
Id say "hey who was that guy driving your vehicle when the kids were dropped off? " lol..
Id say "hey who was that guy driving your vehicle when the kids were dropped off? " lol..
If he don;t know he will know, people talk. Women like her disgust me. Why is she getting the kids for visitation she is not there mother.
Why on earth are you allowing your children to go with his wife, they are not her kids, and she is with a new guy, yet you let them go ??
Am I missing something here??
Am I missing something here??
The ex deserves to know. Especially when her actions effect Your kids.
Wow, not only can she not keep her legs closed, but she's stupid too. The kids are going to blab...you won't need to do a thing.
You should tell him ...
and why are you letting a strange woman pick and drop you kids of shes not there mother or there father if i were you i wouldnt trust her with my kids...
and why are you letting a strange woman pick and drop you kids of shes not there mother or there father if i were you i wouldnt trust her with my kids...
Why is she picking up the kids if he is on deployment ?
well, if there are kids involved..asked him the next time he talks to you if he knows who that is
I wouldn't worry about trying to control my laughter! I would be LMAO!
are you joking right?
Are you serious?
If your ex-husband is deployed overseas, then you should go back to having sole custody of your kids. Don't let their step-mother look after the kids while their father is overseas, she has NOTHING to do with the kids. She's not their mother, you are. I'm pretty sure your kids won't want to witness their step mum's infidelity. Also, if I was divorced with kids and my ex had a new wife, I would NOT let his new wife look after MY kids while he's deployed.
Don't tell your ex-husband about his wife cheating on him, it will just make you look like the jealous ex and it will just turn ugly. She will get found out eventually, trust me.
If your ex-husband is deployed overseas, then you should go back to having sole custody of your kids. Don't let their step-mother look after the kids while their father is overseas, she has NOTHING to do with the kids. She's not their mother, you are. I'm pretty sure your kids won't want to witness their step mum's infidelity. Also, if I was divorced with kids and my ex had a new wife, I would NOT let his new wife look after MY kids while he's deployed.
Don't tell your ex-husband about his wife cheating on him, it will just make you look like the jealous ex and it will just turn ugly. She will get found out eventually, trust me.
LOL!....Wow. That is awesome.
Anyway, I know you'd love to be there when it happens, but think about it like this...the longer it goes on, the more it's going to suck for him. And he will find out...cheaters always get caught!
I do think it's pretty shady of her to bring her boyfriend around your children, though. Way to go, Stepmom - show those kids that this is how a relationship is supposed to be! Isn't she a lovely role model! If it were me I'd have something to say about that - perhaps that what she does is her own business, but if a bad example gets set for your kids you're going to be angry. Just my opinin on that, though.
Anyway, I know you'd love to be there when it happens, but think about it like this...the longer it goes on, the more it's going to suck for him. And he will find out...cheaters always get caught!
I do think it's pretty shady of her to bring her boyfriend around your children, though. Way to go, Stepmom - show those kids that this is how a relationship is supposed to be! Isn't she a lovely role model! If it were me I'd have something to say about that - perhaps that what she does is her own business, but if a bad example gets set for your kids you're going to be angry. Just my opinin on that, though.